Friday, July 18, 2014

Are you doing too much?




Written by guest blogger
Tricia Lynn Logan

I am stuck in a lot of ways today.  I have a post that is due Thursday. It is funny when you are the owner of 5 active blogs, I should be brewing content out like a coffeemaker, but I am not.  I should be proud of this achievement, but I am not in a way.   The question I have to ask myself often is, am I spread myself too thin?  In fact, everyone who thinks they have too much on their plate, should be asking this question as well.  

Here is why I am making this statement.

It has been said that we are a generation of people who multitask.  On second thought, a society, because personally I am in between a baby boomer and a Gen X.  The lines are blurred when you are born in 1964 (July), and you have one group that says you are a baby boomer, but yet, you are a Generation X.  Anyway, the trend of multitasking is not going away soon, and it is growing by leaps and bounds.  But, what happens when you have too many things to do?  There are many ways to find out, and I will put two questions to the test…

Take me for example, in addition to writing blogs and other content work, I was until two weeks ago, a rep for two different direct selling companies, and owning a custom scrapbook and greeting card company.  I decided to drop one of the companies for lack of sales and promotion on my part. I am also into affiliate marketing, which is a challenge in itself.  I wonder if having all of this to do in my businesses, while not holding an outside job to help with finances, is helping or hurting.  There needs to be some organization on my part, if I am going to continue to make this work.

So, if you are in business, take a look at it, as well as other things in your life.  First thing you ask, “Is this the right fit for me and what I am trying to in my life to help me and other people in my life?”  The answer should be yes, and you answer should be clear and on how it is helping in your life.  If not, then why are you in business in the first place?  Money should not be the sole purpose for being in the business you are currently in, only part.  There is nothing with being in it for money, but for me, it tends to get stale after a while.  It not hold depth, and you will always find that you want more out of the business.  When I became a rep in the current company, I went into it thinking that I was going to make tons of money.  Here is a fact finding tool that was spoken to me by the owner of the company.  She said one year at the consultant’s convention not to expect to make tons of money in this business, and I did not understand at it at first.  I finally got it 3 years ago.  She also said to put family and God first.  I also make scrapbooks, greeting cards, which I want to help someone make memories and to cheer, celebrate, and encourage people.  Writing does the same thing. It is all about investing in me, my family, and sharing the skills I have to give for the betterment of this country and the world.

If you have decide to let go of something, first decide how this will affect your life, such as your income or the people who it helped along the way.  Coming back to me letting go of the one direct selling company, which I joined in October 2013, I looked at how much more commission I was bringing in verses not bringing in.   I also looked at how having the business in the first place affected me.  For that, I had to go back to 2006, when I was with a similar company.   By the way, deciding to add something to your life needs to have the same consideration as deciding to take away something.

Once you have decided, please research your decision.  Research everything.  In my case, it had to do with what my current company’s policy was on adding a new direct selling company.  As long it was a sister company (there are 6 of them), it would not affect my status, but had I joined a company that was not in the family, I would not be able to make the current company’s management status.  I can make management status with my scrapbook company and my freelance writing, because they are not direct selling companies. 

Next, tell someone what you plan on doing, as it could affect how things run in their world.  If you have family, they are part of research as well.  See how well your spouse/partner and children react to the idea.  Have a family meeting on the subject, and bring your findings to the table.  If they are on board with it, it is a good fit, but if they have questions, provide the answers or say I do not know. Let give it a trial period.

Even though I do not have anyone to discuss all of my decisions with, I still gave it a trial period.  The company did not work.  I do have some personal (not business-related) projects I did discuss with my parents. They will be my next goals in the next 100 session, and I will mention them at that time.  I am preparing for them as we speak, and I am taking them through this same process.


To recap, you need to re-think about how much you are doing in your life.   There are a couple of questions you need to ask yourself in order to make things work.   Once you decide to add or subtract things from your life, you need to research everything about the task, and have a discussion with family members, if applicable.  Everything needs to be a good fit in your life, your family’s life and your spiritual life.  It is called balance.  Not everything will go smooth, but it be much, much easier to reach your goals and achieve your dreams. 

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